A friend replies, number 8

What do you regard as the lowest depth of misery?

the moment I realize a betrayal is present, the reaction is most
physical and the painful shudder travels down into my hands...


Where would you like to live?

in italy. In a romantic, idyllic mid size town, with a fountain and a
plaza and neighbors with like minds, citizens respectful of beauty and a well balanced life—to be able to walk or bicycle where I need to go.


What is your idea of earthly happiness?

the ground beneath me as warm, a well cushioned lounge chair resting in the shade of a tree, a view beyond of rolling hills and agriculture. And the idea that everything is in its place and my daughter is safe...


To what faults do you feel most indulgent?

perfectionism revealed in a clean floor.


Who are your favorite heroines in real life?

my daughter for her integrity, and my aunts, all who are surviving
losses and ill health in absolute grace.


Your favorite painter?

chagall, for being so romantic in his interpretations of life, cy
twombly for the beauty in his work.


The quality you most admire in a man?

respect


The quality you most admire in a woman?

grace


Your favorite virtue?

absolutely kindness


Your favorite occupation?

like pastime? dancing with a partner and forgetting everything...and
taking a walk with someone


Who would you have liked to be?

a partner of a respectful and kind man...